Cheating

Was reading a lot of my other friends' blogs and I realise that once one person starts to cheat, the relationship is over. No matter how serious is the extent of cheating. And it also doesn't matter if your boyfriend/girlfriend comes back to you because in the end, it will still end. 

Morale of the story? DON'T CHEAT. 

I have like so many friends around who are victims of cheating. I really do not understand why do people want to cheat? I mean, fine, if your boyfriend/girlfriend is not good enough for you and you found someone better, then go ahead and break up with your current one before getting together with the next one? The logic is that simple isn't it? Why do you have to be together with two people at one time and end up hurting all 3 of you? The mindset is just weird. 

Or maybe you just want the best of both worlds? Which is just downright selfish. 

Anyway, this thought popped up to my head because almost all the blogs that I've been reading are about relationship woes and cheating. Like whutttt. I got to say though, I am pretty glad for the existence of my past relationship. Although it's not the best one, it taught me something that was useful for my current relationship. At least with the long distance thing going on, it's not as tough as last time. Pretty much shaped up my mindset. 

Well well well, I need to go prepare for lessons already! Goodbye to whoever is still stalking this place! 

Selfishness

I'm generally a very selfish person. In a sense, I don't like to lose out so I don't put in additional effort to please others or go extremely out of the way.

I made a very selfish and annoying statement to the boyfriend last night. He was saying how can I not go to the airport to pick him up etc. And I was like, but I'm already spending sgd200 to share hotel w you!!!

After thinking about it, isnt it a v selfish statement? I mean, my Boyf has already spent more than sgd400 just to come to hk to find me. It's not like he exceptionally like honking or what. He doesnt even like shopping or anything like that so why would he even want to come to hk for a holiday. It has got to be mostly because of me right.

Sigh and as I think till this point, I can't help but to feel extremely disgusted by my selfishness. How can I focus on my myself and I if I ever want to last long w him?

Filled w disgusted feeling now and I hope dance will help me sweat it out later.

New resolution: be a more selfless person towards everyone around me. Especially my cherished ones who are my family, the boyfriend and my close friends.


And this ends a very wordy blog post. While typing, I've reached my station. I love all you all no matter how selfish i seem ok. I'm sorry and I'll try my best to change in this year!!!

清心寡欲的一天

Life in Hong Kong is starting to resemble that of Singapore. I am becoming lazier to step out of the room to go explore. The weather here was perfect because it was like around 18-20 degrees which is like air con temperature. Awesome right.

But here's the bad news. The temperature in Hong Kong fluctuates damn bloody a lot. The past week was at 18-20 degrees but this week it has been like 11-13 degrees?! What the heck?! You really can't blame me for falling sick here you know, how to survive this insane weather -.- 

Oh speaking of falling sick, my ear infection is back to haunt. Not gonna emphasize on that. So pictures time! :D 

This was what I wore to clubbing the second time :) I feel brave cos it was cold!

 Annoying 214 class is all about being a grammer nazi. SO ANNOYING.

 And after the annoying 214 class, we decided to go on an excursion to all the nearby temples. I think Hong Kong is really famous for their temples. They are built so awesomely :D Makes me feel like I am in another country. 

First, we headed to Wong Tai Sin temple for fortune telling. You know the shake the sticks one? Yup! We went to get interpretation done! I did 3 in total which added up to HKD75! Not that bad to get your fortune told once in a while right.

So here it is:

Love life - The guy who says that he likes me in a joking way will most likely be my destined one. Lol.

Career - I will be able to reach the highest point in my career but it will be step by step. AKA I am not the “一步登天" kind of person. 

Health - I will not have any big health problems in my life but I will be bugged by annoying small problems like respiratory problems. (which is quite true cos I am bugged by my ear infections now!!!) 

Well, I don't really trust 100% in what the fortune teller say but it sure doesn't harm hearing what it would be like for me in the future~ And so after Wong Tai Sin, we went to Diamond Hill to visit a Nunnery! 

It feels like Japan in here! 

This place feels really quiet. 和繁华的黄大仙庙很不一样！

And after that, we went to visit the park that's next the the nunnery!

For people who watch 步步惊心, this place really resembles that era! There was a mad person (my friend) who kept wanting to find her 十四爷 here -.-'''

Combination of ancient and modern. 

“这个时候，四爷应该要划船过来的！！！” >< 

If you are my Facebook friend, you would have seen my Stanley pictures. These few places are probably good for people who want to escape from the busy life in Hong Kong. Not recommended for tourists though. Oh well, I think it was nice going out to breathe the fresh air and being away from the busy city. 

Okay, I am off to snuggle under my quilt to do some readings. Life is getting tough here!!

Cheers to you all and I will update on.... hmmm... 长州岛 soon since I'm heading there over the weekend. See you peeps :D 

My ear hurts

It's annoying that my ear gets infected once in a while.

Okay screw that, not once in a while. It's pretty frequent :( The ear canal is so swollen now that I feel like crying boo. Life sucks.

Blogging in class now. Alright I shall go listen in class. Bye.

Excuse miss, what's your name

Finally took dance classes in Hong Kong. Girls hip hop :) Well, it's my first time taking open classes. And honestly, I almost died. Hahahas what's new. Being the weak me, the crunches and leg lifts killed me. Like seriously. My back, thighs, core and arms are aching like shit. But it's good. Means I'm improving :) 

Thinking of going for jazz funk too. We'll see! Maybe I'll try Jazz funk next month :D 

My ear hurts again. Sucks to have a third-world-country ear. Okay, I am going off to bathe and chill ~~ 

Oh, the last week was pretty hectic with all the PA stuff. Let's just hope that the decision I made was the right one. Now that I know where I want, I really want to get in there. Who cares what others say. You won't know till you try it out for yourself right? ;)

Oh, right, I will be back to blog about horny Japanese guys. Grrr. 

Bye.