Senseless entry with some sense at the back

Recently I have been addicted to all these cute little cartoon backgrounds. I have absolutely no idea why! My handphone wallpaper currently is the cookie monster one. It matches my sms tone which makes a crunching sound. So cute so cute. My twitter dp used to be a very cute pikachu winking and now I changed it to a huge ass hello kitty face. I am just going back to my childhood days I think. Really ley, don't you think looking at the above pictures makes you very happy?! Or maybe it's just me being childish.

Whatever, it's whatever that makes me happy that counts right? ;) teeheehee. This is such a senseless entry. Let me try to put some sense in it.

Was reading some people's blogs and tumblrs just now. And I came to the conclusion that, you just need to be contented in a relationship so that you can be truly happy. I think I should thank God for my boyfriend. As in, I am not sure if y'all saw this previously at my tumblr, but when I first got together with him, he already told me this:

I don't think I can be sweeter to you than this. Not because I don't want to. But I think this is the standard that I can keep going for life. 

Not gonna deny that at first when I look at the other couples around me, I will go, "shit but they are so sweet and like he is not doing anything for me :(" I will be all envious and jealous. But as time goes by, I start to think that if I have an extraordinarily sweet boyfriend from the start, I am not sure if I can control myself from comparing in the future.

Like, I will confirm start to say things like, "Last time... you did... and now don't even have ..." and I bet he is just going to be irritated right? I can totally foresee myself doing that cos I think if you are sweet to a person during the chase, you should be sweet to the person even after the chase correct?

But my boyfriend is still considered sweet by normal standards. He will buy macs breakfast for me occasionally to surprise me, change his poker timings just so that he can catch a movie with me after my exams, cook random meals for me :) So I am not complaining.


So I guess, being in love does not only mean finding the perfect person in the world, like the sweetest guy and everything. I guess, it's about finding the perfect person for you. And at this point of time, 6 months into the relationship, I think he is pretty decent for me. It's like our characters fit. Well, most of the time. (Okay, I will spare you the agony of listening to the details of our quarrels)

Yeap okay people, morale of the story, be contented with what you have, don't compare. But if you think that he is not the right one for you, maybe it's time to rethink the decision while you are still young :)

Disclaimer though. I am not saying that the boyfriends who are extraordinarily sweet to their girlfriends now will not be sweet to them in the future. I am just saying that most of the cases are like that. And I belong to the class of girls who will compare the past and the present. Okay, time for bed. He looks so happy rolling on his carpet -.- Grrr.

Love you and love you even more if you made it through this longggggg entry. Reward you with another cute picture that is my desktop wallpaper now.